Who knows if the “else” is better

Sometimes I get stuck on the “if only”. If only I started younger, if only I jumped sooner, if only I said "no" to the wrong offers. I would be somewhere else. But who knows if the “else” is better? who knows you didn’t make the right call? At the end of the day, we can’t tell. We can say we made mistakes and took the wrong decisions but we can never tell what would have happened if we chose the other path. This is nothing but a distraction. Mind your own business, your challenges, and your obsessions. Anything extra it’s just a distraction.